You are not going to get a full day off this week. You may not get a full hour. The rest that is available to you lives in the cracks — the small pauses between tasks that, until now, you have been filling with more tasks.
Rest in the cracks looks like this:
- Sitting down to drink your coffee, not standing at the counter.
- Eating one meal at a table, not over the sink.
- Five slow breaths in the parking lot before you walk into the appointment.
- Letting the dishes wait for an hour. The dishes will still be there. They are very patient.
The hardest part is allowing the pause to count. The mind will say this isn't real rest, I should be doing something. That voice is wrong. Micro-rest is real rest. The nervous system does not require a vacation to settle. It requires permission, repeatedly, throughout the day.
Look for the cracks. They are there. Stop filling all of them.
If this sounds like you
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